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Tuesday, July 19, 2011

What's the name of the game!

As the girl news descends upon us my mom and I do what every mom and daughter team do, we go and buy something pink.
Daddy A and I have agreed on a boy’s name (yes Baby A we thought you were a boy but let’s not go into too much detail as I don’t want to be blamed for future psychological issues) but the naming game is not fun anymore especially when your Husband is so unreasonable J

Celebrities put themselves out there with naming their children; I think it is quite cool – when I first heard of Kingston/Shiloh/Brooklyn/Harlow as names I was undecided but the name grow on you; that or am I just a wannabe celeb-hippy at heart. Congrats to the Beckhams on their daughter Harper Seven- thanks for making it even more difficult for me  to think of a name.  My mom, my aunt and I decide that we too can be original and out there with our names. Please note that the baby daddy was not involved in the outcome of my number one name option. He prefers things more simple.  So in honour of naming the baby after a food, number, hair product, town or favourite alcoholic beverage -the conclusion is with the help of the local South Africa twist I am steering towards.
Hunters  Ten Woop-Woops Piesang* Jozi** X Ablett
With this name I believe BABY A will do things… “Great things” ... mmh the vote is out.

I have also been warned that naming your baby is a personal thing as every name you have on your list will relate to someone ugly, mean or snotty that somebody else knew – and it seems these people relate the names back to when they were kids never now as adults.
Apparently star signs need to be taken into account, when naming your child, so do I need to bring in Libra or Scorpio as a name or should I stick to my star sign Aquarius… grr so much pressure.

As parents you have to enjoy the name as you are the ones who will use it the most.  Now should we go for a middle name? Yes I say, as when I am making a point to my perfect child or when said perfect  child has made me angry, I believe  using her whole name will make more of an impact at getting my point across. Ok that is my opinion, it doesn’t necessarily  have to be a good opinion – give me a break- I am still in the dreaming stage of what parenting is all about.

So we wait for our Baby Girl to arrive and we wait for a sign to help us in the naming game, I myself have the name I want but then so does baby Daddy… Let’s hope our little ray of sunshine… mmh Sunshine now that could maybe work…

*Piesang is banana in Afrikaans
**Jozi is the African slang name for Johannesburg

Thursday, July 7, 2011

The Great Reveal...

I cant handle this suspense any longer... so continuing since I left off... there I was tummy in the air looking beached whale-ish... it is revealed to us that we are having a... GIRL!!!

My Husband and I look at each other in absolute shock, on our first 2 scans we were told that she looked like a boy... OK should I tell her... well to late... Surprise little Baby A.

We are having a girl... I come from a family of girls so this shouldn't be a shock, right? No, Still shocked because I have Au paired overseas and locally and I have always looked after boys...

So now I am faced with the fact that I am going to be a GIRL MOMMY...
My mom and aunts just laugh and chant "ooh a mini me" this followed by lots of childish giggling.
I imploringly look at my mom and say surely I was and am the most perfect daughter in the world...
She looks back lovingly and says "Pay-back's a B$%^$"

Monday, July 4, 2011

Scanning genders...

We went for our 4D scan this weekend. Woo-hoo my need to know Baby A's gender has been weighing heavily on my nursery decorating shoulders...

What is the difference between a 2D, 3D and 4D scan? (you ask)
A 2D scan displays 2 dimensions - height and width.
A 3D scan displays 3 dimensions - height, width and depth.
A 4D scan displays 4 dimensions - height, width, depth and movement.
A 4D scan is also referred to as "Live 3D" as the 4th dimension is time which is the actual movement of the baby


So there we were ready for our scan... I had drunk a big cup of coffee (even though the heartburn has been with me for about 4 days - the things we d!o) I had Plan B "show us your gender by being sugared up on chocolate" in my bag, should Baby not cooperate... I will show you baby...

Baby Daddy, Baby Daddy's mommy and daddy watch as I lightly plop myself on the bed like an elegant pregnant fairy...ok more like heaved myself on and so the scan began...

Within minutes the baby showed itself to us... we did get to find out the gender of our future baby and were we shocked? Rhetorical question... not the grandparents of course they were gushing, but Baby Daddy and Baby Momma where like... how do we change this nappy...

The saga of BABY A's gender continues... what do you think?